A: Welcoming a new baby is a big change for the entire family – especially siblings. Your older child may resent the new baby for taking away your attention. If you’re worried about whether your older child will adapt to a new baby in the house, here are some tips to make the transition easier.

  • Prepare in advance. During your pregnancy, teach your child what having a new baby will be like. Read age-appropriate books about new siblings, pretend a doll is the new baby or visit friends with newborns so your child knows what to expect once the baby arrives.
  • Encourage prenatal bonding. Let your child feel the baby kick, listen to his or her heartbeat and watch ultrasounds so siblings already have a connection before birth.
  • Introduce the baby. Make your children’s first meeting a special event. Let the older sibling give a special gift to his or her brother or sister, like a stuffed animal or onesie, and allow him or her to touch and hold the newborn. You may also want to arrange for someone to take him or her on a special outing, such as to the park or to get ice cream, to make the day feel really special.
  • Let your older child be a special helper. Allow him or her to help with daily tasks like feeding, dressing or rocking the baby. This will help your older child feel like an important part of the baby’s life and encourage bonding.
  • Spend time with your older child. Even though babies take a lot of effort, make sure to set aside some daily one-on-one time with your older child, such as a special bedtime routine or singing a song together. Let the older child know he or she is still special to you.

Although sibling rivalry may occur, following these tips can promote bonding and make the adjustment to a new baby easier for your entire family.

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Disclaimer: If your baby has a fever or other symptoms, or you have concerns about the growth and development of your child, always seek care with your healthcare provider.